Reader Question:
I’ve been seeing this person approximately 3 months now. We came across on the internet and just lately chose to not see people. We actually enjoy each other and starting to introduce the families.
He is still active regarding dating site we found off. The guy admitted to using informal discussions nevertheless every so often. I’m not a jealous or vulnerable person, but it’s sort of struck me personally incorrect.
Should this bother me?
-Ayra (Vermont)
Dr. Wendy Walsh’s Solution:
Ayra,
Should this concern you? Positively! He or she is nonetheless playing the field online and wanting a larger, much better deal.
In my opinion you ought to call their bluff. Simply tell him their words of exclusivity indicate nothing if they are nevertheless unmarried online. Declare that you two relocated to fast and tell him you are thrilled to go-back online as well, if the guy believes remaining unmarried is ideal.
Oh, and another thing, stop sex with him.
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